March 30, 2011

The "leeches" within us

Are you one of us?
People in our lives always have reason why they tend to stay and of course hundreds and thousands of  reasons why they suddenly go. Among those reasons? survival

In a way it's not at all a sudden thing to be left behind or to go away. Partly...perhaps...it is us being preoccupied that made us blind not to see bad things coming our way. Preoccupations and ignorance of what really the problem is. How can you fix something you're not aware of?

People come...people go because there is a need to survive.

We have to understand that as humans, we normally look after the things that could nourish our existence. Most of the time we go for things that can make us happy even others are not. We live to survive and we are all attracted to pleasures.  As a matter of fact, only a few of us will choose to stay and live in agony. Why sacrifice if there's an easy way to get rid of pain? Nowadays, you can always find a new and a happy place anytime and anywhere you wanted in an instant.

Relationships, friends, sisterhood, brotherhood and  for the worst, families--once a treasure but today it is something replaceable.

We are all leeches in our simple ways. We tend to attach ourselves to someone/something that could make us happy... . We satisfied ourselves with what we need. Then before be knew it and when we feel it is enough... detachment seems to be very easy. No buts and whys. Sad but true. We all have the power of choice.

Letting go and leaving things behind is normal when we have reasons. We have to deal with the truth: letting go is not the only hardest sentiment. To  go away feels exactly just the same. Both side get hurts.

So don't hate anyone if they'll choose to leave, they just need to SURVIVE...


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